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To-do List

There was a lady on the bus this morning, in her mid-twenties, casually dressed, looking at a pad. I glance over and see she is reading a to-do list.

I love to-do lists. I have tons. They have categories. Personal lists, work lists, creative lists. My lists have lists. I am writing this entry in a to-do list.

I know she was reading one because I read it. Yeah, I know, bad thing, I shouldn’t have, blah blah blah zzzzzzz.

Anyway, changing the subject: today is a good day, the traffic wasn’t bad and I’m going away next week to….

What’s that? Excuse me? What was on the list? I knew it. You see, you would have read it to.

The list said this:

To-do List
1. Wash loads of Nick’s shirts.
2. Perhaps start packing.
3. Ask Sarah about JJ’s birthday pressie.

I love number 2. It’s so unassuming it’s almost embarassed to be on the list. She’s obviously a planner, rather than an activist like me who jumps in at the deep end.

My list would look like this:

1. Shirts for Nick.
2. Present for JJ. Talk to Sarah.
3. Pack.

I put pack last because if I should “perhaps think about” it, it can perhaps wait.

I am quite results oriented, but I’m not a type A go-getter. People notice I’ve got before I mention I’m going to get it, if you see what I mean.

But I know a lot of these planners, and they can drive me mad.

“Don’t plug it in!!!”

“Why not?”

“We need to read the manual.”

“Why?”

“I don’t know. But we should read it first and make sure there’s nothing we don’t need to know.”

I am going away soon and someone who has nothing to do with my planning asked me when I was going to pack and what case I was going to use.

I would just say “What are you taking?”

I guess they just like planning. Maybe it’s bad that I don’t. Part of the whole thisisthisness of how I live is:

“What’s happening?”

“What do I need?”

“What do I really need?”

All the rest is emptiness.

Which is where I’m headed for a while. The next post will be on the 22 August of your Earth calender. During that time, I will travel around sun nearly a dozen times. Fact.

7 Responses to “To-do List”

  1. funny thing Says:

    I write lists for everything too, but I always include a few things that I’ve already done, just so I can tick them off straight away.
    What does that make me?
    A type-Z lazy git?
    I’m certainly not a go-getter (unless you include pizza) but I respect your go-getness in a happy-to-watch-other-people-go-get kind of way. If you get my meaning.

  2. Em Says:

    You made me laugh out loud with your Type A description. That’s sooo me. I guess I would drive you mad…

  3. JonnyB Says:

    oh good comments are back…

    *reads last post*

    oh. I’m a bit late.

  4. Bonnie Says:

    Tell “funny thing” that that’s a therapist-enduced way of dealing with OCD. When you know you can’t possibly live unless you’ve crossed something off your list, you’re told to put things on your list that can easily be crossed off in order to keep your sanity.

    Believe it. I lived it.

    We’ll miss you, Cliff!

  5. Clare Says:

    Goodness, lists are following me round. A chap commented on my blog about his ‘list of lists’ site ( http://ocdfinds.blogspot.com/ ) and on Home Truths this morning, there was a segment about shopping lists ( http://www.bbc.co.uk/radio4/hometruths/20050822_lists.shtml ). Very odd.

  6. Bonnie Says:

    Ooh, I’m going to have to check out that OCD Finds Blog!! Yippee! I just recently blogged about having lists of lists. I must be missing you.

    And hurry back, wouldja? The 22nd seems so far away!

  7. Cliff Says:

    I’m down with OCD. Hi Bonnie - back now. Nothing is more safe now than it was while I was away. I’m just back, that’s all.

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